How to use your Relationship manager

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The Relationship manager (RM) is your go-to tool for managing member communication and benefit delivery for your memberships. Creators can use RM filters to send messages or benefits to lists of members based on a variety of factors (e.g., email address, tier, join date, membership status, etc.).

You can access the RM on desktop and on mobile web by clicking on the Audience link from the left side menu or the ☰ menu in the upper-left corner. This guide will take you through how to use this tool and common use cases and best practices for managing your paid members and benefits.

Quick links:

Member statuses


The RM gives each member a membership status to help you identify members who currently have access, and members who don’t. You can quickly filter by the following status from the top of your Relationship manager:

Active The member has paid or is scheduled to be billed. This paid member has access to posts you've published for their level and is eligible to receive benefits. 
Decline The most recent charge attempt was declined. The member does not have access to the posts you've shared on Patreon and is not eligible to receive benefits. 
Refunded The most recent charge was refunded (note: members must also delete their membership to avoid renewal).
Fraud The most recent charge was deemed fraudulent. The member does not have access to posts you've shared on Patreon and their page may be removed. 
Follower The user can find your public posts but does not have access to member-only posts or content. Followers receive updates when you make public posts on your Patreon page and they are not charged.

Why are some member details not shown in Relationship manager?

Some member details may be hidden because the member was removed. Personal information (e.g., name, email address) about members may be hidden due to one or more of the following reasons:

  • The member has been blocked by the creator
  • The member has been removed for violating Patreon’s Terms of Use
  • The member has requested removal in line with GDPR compliance
  • The creator has been blocked by the member (only possible if the member has a creator profile)

Common actions and how-to tips

Now let’s go over common uses of Relationship manager to help you manage, message, and engage with members:

Messaging and delivering benefits

I want to message my filtered list of members or an individual member

Click the Filters button and select the filters you’d like. Once you create your specific filter view, you can click the individual checkboxes next to members’ names, or click the checkbox at the top of the list to send a message to all members on the list.

I want to send all my new members an individual or group welcome message

The default list of members will show your newest members listed at the top (locate Join Date column). Select your new members by clicking the checkbox (on one or more), and click the Message button to send a group message or an individual message.

Reviewing member payment information

I want to filter all paid memberships by a specific amount each month

Click on the Filters button and use the Pledge amount filter to choose what range you’d like to filter.

I want to filter all members who have paid a given amount over their membership's lifetime

Click the Filters button to open up the side panel and use the Lifetime pledge amount filter to set the range for the overall pledge amount (cumulative member pledge amount).

I want to filter all declined payments in a particular payment range

Click the Declined button and then click Filters to open up the side panel and set the Pledge amount filter.

I want to filter the current month/post and members with declined payments

Click on the Declined button then click the Filters button and set the Last charge date. The Last charge date filter allows you to pull a list of members who have a last charge date that falls between any two dates. Once you have your filtered list, you can take actions (e.g., click the Message button to send declined members a note).

I want to filter a list of members with email addresses and "have-not-paid" status

Sort by payment status, and you can check for members that have “--” or no value in the Status column.

I want to identify my member’s max membership amount (*only available for per-creation creators)

In the pledge column, go to the tooltip to find that member’s max monthly pledge.

Finding specific members

I want to filter a list of members from a specific time

Click the Filters button and set the Last charge date. The Last charge date filter allows you to pull a list of members who have a last charge date that falls between any two dates. You can click the quick filter buttons; Active, New, Declined, and Canceled to filter members during a specific time with a specific status.

I want to view my newest members this month (so I can send a welcome message or deliver a benefit)

By default, we sort your members by Join Date (i.e., the date members first signed up for your membership). Click the New button and then click the Filters button and set a shortcut from the Join Date filter, or choose your own range.

I want to filter individual member details like name, email, notes, shipping address, and payment history

You can customize which columns are displayed in your Relationship manager by clicking the gear icon, including Shipping Address, Notes, Discord handle, Cancelled Date, and more.

When you click on a member in the list, we’ll display that individual member’s data in the side panel, including shipping address, notes, Discord handle, and payment history.

I want to search my full list of members, not just those on a certain page of results (i.e., “see more” or “see all” members in one list)

The Search bar searches across all your members, not just those visible on the page. You can find members based on their name, email address, or Discord handle.

I want to filter member email addresses in the list view

In the second column, next to the member name, you can view your members' email addresses, so it’s easy to grab it in the list view. Long email addresses will be shortened, but you can copy the email by right-clicking on it.

Email addresses are also included in the CSV download of your member list.

Filtering and sorting members

I want to filter and sort my members by tiers

Click Filters on the right side and choose your tier. You can select multiple tiers from this filter. This is particularly helpful if you have a benefit you need to deliver to more than one tier.

I want to filter which members should receive a certain benefit (offered in one or more of my tiers)

Click the Filters button. Select All tiers and then select the benefits to get a list of the members who are owed those benefits based on their tier.

NOTE: If you have not added specific benefits to your tiers, you can learn more about listing out the benefits you offer in your tiers.


I want to filter a list of the members who have supported me the longest

Click the arrows next to the Join Date column to sort your members by the date they signed up.

I want to filter my members who’ve paid the most money in their lifetime

Click Filters and customize the range in Lifetime Pledge Amount.

I want to save a set of filters so I can come back regularly to a fresh list of members

Once you have your desired Filters set, click the Save Filters button at the bottom of the side drawer to save and set a name for your list.

To access this list again, head to the Saved Filters tab and select the list you want to work with.

How do I find Commerce customers?

If you are looking for customers that have purchased digital products, you can find them by navigating to the Sales tab right next to Relationship manager. Here, you’ll be able to find information such as product and date purchased, status, and amount paid. You can also export your customer details and transactions. Learn more by visiting our detailed guide about the Sales tab.

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